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Cake day: July 16th, 2023

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  • The white man’s burden is also used referentially to call out people who do things like travel to poor countries to build houses even though they have far less building experience than locals and the money they paid to get there would have gone much further, had it simply been donated in the form of building materials.

    I don’t know how RFK Jr. is using it, but it almost certainly makes no sense.

    Edit: oh, voluntourism! I knew there was a term for it










  • Sorry for the mostly tangent, but I guess I’m also more sensitive about terms than I realized.

    My sister got married after dating her husband for about six months. On the day of the wedding, my new BIL started calling me “sis” even though it was the third time we’d met.

    I actually like him quite a lot now and I’m very glad that they’re married, but woof did that rub me the wrong way. I don’t think anyone has ever called me sis before or since with the exception of drunk women in the bathroom (and I have, all told, eight siblings, step siblings, and siblings in law).