

And, again, why are you listing other ways to insult people, as if they are fine when they’re not?
God, are you dense.
Life is a rarely a zero-sum exchange, and quite often both sides aren’t perfect people. Just because someone slapped you after you called them a slur doesn’t mean you’re now in the right because they escalated to physical violence.
You even write that yourself. When someone is violating your private space or just attacking you on the street because they don’t like you for whatever reason (autistic people get a lot of that) and they are a humiliated good-for-nothing creature with no other ways to reinforce their self-confidence, you might say a lot of things including slurs to get rid of them, and be right.
Like I fundamentally am having trouble relating to you on this. I can’t tell if your mental is that fucked, if you are terrible at explaining something I’m missing, or if you’re trying to troll. I’ve come across differences in opinions, based on severity and direction. It feels like we’re not using the same system.
No, you are trying to play intelligent refusing to admit you get a very simple mechanism.
An extremely sensitive subject is normally discussed the same way as an absolutely mundane subject, just very sensitive.
Like a big system is like a small system, just big. And vice versa.
Order of statements in a conversation or actions in a conflict matters, and a statement or an action can have different weight.
Quite obviously if you are generally right, but have used some nasty insults, you are still generally right. Even if the other side is perfectly polite.