True for bisexuals in general, but bisexual twinks are always welcome.
- 10 Posts
- 433 Comments
I’m sorry you’ve been feeling this way! You look super cute and super sad. If you aren’t already, you could cosider dating a girl who could provide some affirmation and help with beauty and such. From that photo, everything seems physiologically perfect, but I do get a certain vibe that is consistent with the things you’ve said. If you want some advice from random people here, I have some pointers:
- The emo/goth look does nothing to make you less depressed
- Try dyeing your hair
- Try wearing lighter colors
- Smile! :)
lazyneet@programming.devto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•My fashion style changed and it's not very JRPG anymore.English
5·23 days agoYou look great! I hope fascist fashion isn’t the new thing. I want to wear my electric blues, fishnet gloves, tights, and microskirts.
lazyneet@programming.devtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•Have you ever noticed any health benefits from having sex regularly?English
12·1 month agoA sense of adequacy as a person, but this is tied to a relationship as much as sex. Being able to make someone cum when they have had difficulty with other partners is a terribly wonderful feeling to have, especially when one can anticipate future visits and possibly a life with this person.
lazyneet@programming.devto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•I went to a restaurant yesterday, I think I looked really goodEnglish
13·2 months agoYou look amazing! And you look quite dressed up by Oregon standards. Is that considered business-casual?
lazyneet@programming.devto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Had a date with a heterosexual man for the first time. He had a hard-on when we cuddled. It felt strangely validating.English
6·2 months agoIf they’re attracted to me as nonbinary would be almost as validating as attraction to me as a woman. People who call themselves gay or straight seldom adhere completely to their orientations. Today I became friends with another transgirl, one far prettier than I am, and I would fill any gender role to be with someone like her, and I have compromised my gender by butching it up before, and it was a worthy sacrifice. My desire is greater than my self-respect.
lazyneet@programming.devto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Had a date with a heterosexual man for the first time. He had a hard-on when we cuddled. It felt strangely validating.English
9·2 months agoThat’s awesome! I “dated” a straight guy once, meaning I stopped by to give him a blowjob. I personally like the vibes of gay guys and would consider appealing to androsexuals as a fem a victory, as that would mean my appeal transcends appearance and gender.
lazyneet@programming.devto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Had a date with a heterosexual man for the first time. He had a hard-on when we cuddled. It felt strangely validating.English
5·2 months agoAnd don’t forget, transgirl boners only come from true love
lazyneet@programming.devto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Case – Laparoscopic radical prostatectomy in a transgender woman after gender-affirming vaginoplastyEnglish
1·2 months agoThank you, you’ve given me a lot to think about.
lazyneet@programming.devto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Case – Laparoscopic radical prostatectomy in a transgender woman after gender-affirming vaginoplastyEnglish
3·2 months agoGood to know! I heard you do that at 40. A bit unrelated, but since we’re talking ages, is there an ideal age for a double orchiectomy? You’ve presumably already had it done, but in the back of my mind there is a possibility of global collapse and I’ll need strong bones to survive, even without medication. I was thinking of timing it with an early menopause to minimize the risk of harm in that scenario, but maybe earlier is better.
lazyneet@programming.devto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Case – Laparoscopic radical prostatectomy in a transgender woman after gender-affirming vaginoplastyEnglish
9·2 months agoPSA levels will decrease significantly to undetectable levels, and reported values need to be interpreted in this context
As someone on HRT with currently no plans for a vaginoplasty, I’m assuming this means the best way to tell if I have cancer is anal examination UwU
I’m still not getting the point of this board, whether it’s for threads or DM requests. I’m a 30s transfem also into all sorts, though I’ve never fucked anyone 10 years older or younger. I catch glimpses of hot guys in their late 40s and wonder what could be, but 50s tends to be a harder decade for men. Do you keep in shape?
lazyneet@programming.devtoGayBrosGoneWild@lemmynsfw.com•Lonely and horny. Think you can solve those issues
3·2 months agoIf I were there that would go straight up my ass 💖
lazyneet@programming.devto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•How should I come out to my friend?English
22·2 months agoJust tell her you’re transitioning. She’s queer, she’ll get it. I told all my queer friends as soon as I started hormones and I’ll give all the gory details of my gender and sexuality to any adult who’s curious. You got this.
Came out over 15 years ago in high school as bisexual; nobody cared. Came out 2 years ago to my father by saying “I prefer guys at this point in my life;” response was “well, that…” Came out last winter to my mother as trans; response was “what does trans mean?”
I’ve primarily heard the meme on /r9k/ and related communities. There’s a strong chance that an unloved straight man who identifies with royalty is the misogynistic kind of incel.
I’d like to nibble on those manly meat mounds and take the length of whatever that bush is hiding (◕‿◕)♡
lazyneet@programming.devto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•First post, first time going out with fem clothesEnglish
1·2 months agoAh ok, then it could easily all work seamlessly one day.
lazyneet@programming.devto
Lemmy NSFW Chat@lemmynsfw.com•Anyone like to talk about anything sexual? your feelinteEnglish
3·2 months agoDiscussion here or in DMs? I love public convos where anyone can contribute. What’s on your mind?



Absolutely gorgeous 😍