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Cake day: June 21st, 2023

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  • khannie@lemmy.worldtoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    23 hours ago

    Enjoy it and really, congratulations!!

    I’ve been the young dad at school and now I’m the old dad. There are 21 years between our youngest and oldest. I wasn’t quite your age when we had our happy little accident but I’m so happy to have him and it sounds like you are too.

    I’ll offer one piece of advice and that is to start looking after your health if you’re not already. You’re going to want the extra, high quality years with your kid that good diet and exercise bring and being fit really does help with the parenting adventure (in my experience anyway).

    Enjoy the ride! It’s so much fun. I’m really happy for you.









  • You don’t have to but I wouldn’t naturalise in her situation either. Under no circumstances would I pledge allegiance to a country that I felt wasn’t mine and if I had a green card I wouldn’t bother.

    That’s not to say I might not feel that way about another country in the future but as I said my sister has been living in the UK for over two thirds of her life and would never consider getting a British passport. Even her adult daughter chooses an Irish one.

    If you don’t mind me asking why bother with the dual citizenship? And did you feel any weirdness pledging yourself to the second country?




  • I’ve been reading bedtime stories nightly for 23 years now and I’ve a good six or so left before I’m out.

    If you want to try again in the future I would gently suggest listening to a few audio books from really good narrators. It upped my game quite a bit.

    Also, even for an adult, Charlotte’s Web. Incredible story. Easily my favourite of all time to read to others and gripping from page one. Think I’ve done it seven times now. God damn I love that book so much.






  • You wear your dark blue suit son. It’s obviously respectful. That’s all that matters.

    Where I’m from only close friends and family would wear a suit and dark blue would be absolutely fine. Black jeans and a nice jacket would be spot on here too in nearly all circumstances.

    I’ll tell you what though if you got an invite to the pope’s funeral I’d bet you money you’d pony up for black. That’s all folks are saying here.


  • Look, I know you’ve been given enough downvotes so I won’t add to them but this is just not true.

    I have what most people would consider a metric fuck tonne of kids and I love the ever loving shit out of every one of them but never once have we celebrated their 8th month of existence.

    None of my friends or family have ever done anything so utterly weird either.

    It’s just weird. So weird that I question the validity of the original post.


  • How do you give up territory “temporarily,”

    A long time ago Ireland did it. We’re still living with that partition today and as part of the good Friday agreement we gave up our constitutional claim on the North. There was a referendum on it (all constitutional changes here require one) and I, along with the vast majority of the Republic, voted in favour with some caveats which would allow reunification.

    If they concede now that land is gone though. Gone. There will be no caveats given to Ukraine.


  • No worries :)

    I know we’ve had that label for a long time and I felt like it was reasonable but to give some context, the Ireland I grew up in was poor as fuck. Like there was literally zero kilometres of motorway when I was a kid. To get from Dublin to Belfast you had to drive through every poxy little town on the way.

    So the government went all out on using our English speaking, well educated people to bring in multinationals to bring in revenue and stop what was an enormous brain drain in the 80s. The EU funded the shit out of infrastructure and we’re now a net contributor to the coffers.

    I think we’ve reached the point that they won’t leave now (the companies or the talent) so the extra taxation is very welcome.