The therapy rat is really saucing up that leg cross

The propaganda campaign worked 😵

That gangsta lean

A good honeydew is rare, but when you get one it’s magical

I think my only advice is don’t be afraid to go with your gut when picking someone, even if it feels judgmental or irrational. This is one of the things in life where your own comfort is paramount as a starting point.

Feel more comfortable talking to a man, or to a woman? Go with that. Do you get a weird vibe you can’t explain from someone? Go with that and look for someone else.

It’s also OK to look for another one if you don’t like the first one. Just make sure the reason isn’t because they’re making you confront difficult things. That’s the whole point.

Good luck, and I hope you get some positive things from it. It’s not easy, and it can be uncomfortable, but I personally have gotten a lot of clarity from it. Remember that only you can change you, though. All the therapist can do is reveal your patterns to you and give you coping strategies.

I’m not sure but I will say it’s nice how often the top comments are pretty reasonable on here.

The teal parts are tarnished bronze right? It actually looks kind of good in the teal 😄

5th panel would be her combusting from the combined heat

I didn’t know pyramid schemes were so romantic 😳

/j

I was gonna say… I like Lemmy overall but there are many, many reply guys on here. 😅

Don’t tell 'em about this because then we’ll have neutron males to deal with overnight. 🙄

I’m one of the people who had to evacuate for this. Tensely waiting at a relative’s right now for when I can go back to see if my house is OK. 😮‍💨

Not to mention a lot of them even have private rooms for pretty cheap.

This is never how copyright has worked, and that’s not even talking about getting permission from the person the photo is of. 😑

Why do so many AI people think that just because you found a way to scrape something, it’s OK to use however you want?

Amazon are proving year after year that it takes more than money to make games.

If you can’t trust someone called goonswarm games, who can you trust? 😔

Exactly. Read the room in other words!

I think down voting things you disagree with or want to discourage is a perfectly valid way to use them, and better in most cases than responding and further escalating a shit fight.

If something you post gets heavily downvoted, that’s information. You now know that your opinion is unpopular in that community. If you get down voted frequently and it really bothers you, it might be time to do some introspection on what you think or how you present yourself. Not all opinions are created equal, and you’re not entitled to people’s attention.

I can appreciate the opinion that discussion would be better, but I don’t think it’s realistic. Many times bad takes are coming from people who have no intention of listening, and just want to spew hate or argue. Down voting and moving on is a much better use of people’s time than arguing with these people. If for no other reason than preserving one’s mental health. It sends a message without feeding the trolls in other words.

As for how I use them? Funny/uplifting/valuable posts = upvote Don’t get it/not interesting to me = nothing Shit take/spam/obnoxious person/wrong community = downvote

Now kith 🫣

Do you know how to program, or are you trying to learn? That’s a big factor in what I would suggest.