I M(38) have been on a sabbatical through Asia and got to know a lovely woman. We have slept with each other, spend 2 weeks together. She even cooked for me. I know she wants me. I am back home now and we are staying in touch over whatsapp. She wants to see me again and I’m pretty sure she wants a relationship and eventually settle with kids. I, on my hand, am not sure if I should settle for her. I fear that she is only after my money and will reveal her true colors once she is married to me. I am doing well in life and it is her chance to leave her poor country behind and upgrade her life. She seems really fine so far but like I said I fear that she is baiting me and wants to exploit me financially. How do I approach this to check what she is really about? Its risky to settle for her but its probably even riskier to settle for a woman in my country (high divorce rates). So what do I have to lose, right?