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This is an alternate version of the Feminine Boys community on Reddit. Like that one it is an SFW text based community for the discussion on the Femboy experience.

Rules:

No image posts. This is a text based discussion community so posts can’t contain an image (exception for Thumbnails of articles which may be linked). Images can be included in post body if they add context to the discussion or help describe something. Just remember this community’s primary purpose is text based discussion. (This also applies to comments).
No NSFW content. Don’t engage in discussions of fetish or sexual content here. Sexuality can be discussed here. Discussion of anatomy should be depersonalized.
No being a creep. Don’t ask for Dates, sex, DMs, hookups, anything of a sensitive nature like that. Do not post asking for personal information.
No medical discussion.Try not to discuss medical issues as they are prone to incorrect or misinformation. Additionally DO NOT share advice for DIY medical procedures (this is dangerous and will earn you a permanent ban).
No Invalidation Gender Identity. Specifically no calling people eggs, also known informally as egging, which is trying to insist that a femboy (or any other GNC person) must be trans due to being GNC, it is hurtful and invalidating, makes people doubt themselves, and for that reason can be considered a form of gaslighting and abuse. If a person is questioning their gender you may offer them advice but you must not tell them they are trans with any certainty. Also Rule 4 applies heavily here, do not push people to do HRT or worse DIY-HRT. In addition to those rules there is absolutely no homophobia or transphobia allowed in this community whatsoever.
No bigotry of any kind. Absolutely no racism, sexism, ableism or any other form of bigotry will be tolerated here.
No bad-faith politics. Don’t engage in bad-faith politics here, this could include alt-right conservative politics but also anything tankie related. We’ll know when we see it. Don’t test us.
Be nice to each other. The golden rule.
Lemmy.world accounts are forbidden from Posting or commenting here. If you comment here on with accounts from those instances they will be removed and the accounts banned. You may comment here using accounts from other instances. Bans apply retroactively but will be spaced out to avoid spamming the log.

Visibility: Public

This community can be federated to other instances and be posted/commented in by their users.

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1 user / month
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Modlog

Blåhaj Lemmy

A general purpose lemmy instance for gender diverse folk and their allies.

Blåhaj Lemmy

Blåhaj Lemmy is brought to you by the kind folk at Blåhaj Zone, and while anyone is free to register for an account here, please bear in mind that this is a server that is very protective of our minority members and bigotry of any variety will be squashed with great prejudice.

We have several alternative lemmy frontends you can use. Just login with your regular blahaj login details.

We have a public matrix channel for all Blahaj users at #blahaj:chat.blahaj.zone

We also have a matrix channel for gender diverse folk and our allies! If you’re already a matrix user, you can head straight to our application room https://matrix.to/#/#gv-apply:chat.blahaj.zone, or by searching for #gv-apply:chat.blahaj.zone from within your matrix client.

If you’re new to matrix, you can find some more details and an instruction video on how to get up and running here https://chat.blahaj.zone/c/genderverse/

Community Guidelines

Blåhaj Lemmy is a space where everyone should feel able to participate safely, and to that end, our community is built on the guiding philosophies of empathy, inclusion and acceptance.

Empathy

We want our community members to be guided by compassion and empathy for others.

Examples of behaviour that are contrary to this philosophy are personal attacks, insults, doxing etc. If your comment is designed to hurt someone, this isn’t the space for it.

Inclusion and Acceptance

Embracing inclusion and acceptance means listening when people tell you who they are and what their needs are. It means not telling people that you know their experiences better than they do. It means not gatekeeping experiences of identities of others. It means no bigotry such as racism, sexism, anti LGBT commentary, ableism etc. It means doing your best to ensure that you don’t over-talk the voices of folk who don’t share your privileges.

Supporting Blåhaj Lemmy

After much hesitation, we have a Ko Fi to enable people to help with supporting some of the running costs associated with our instances.

Providing a safe space for our community is the goal, so please only consider donating if you are in a position to do so without any financial stress.

Mascot and logo

Find out about our mascot Shonky (they/them) who appears on our site logo here.

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